The Dark Side

The Hidden Secret of The Dark Side

The Dark Side of life, the dark night of the soul…
all the bad things in life often, actually help propel us out of them.  Allow us to rebuild our lives or our neighborhoods and towns hit by the literal as well as psychological floods tornadoes, the tsunami’s of life, both inner and outer.

That can be a good thing don’t you think?   The darker experiences tend to propel us faster toward what we do desire often quicker than if things are going so so.  It’s possible, it could be, that Our Higher Self is calling this forth because of our own impatience with our apathy.

Thus, what we judge as a bad, or dark experiences, is really propelling us toward what we really do desire.  Now, I believe we can advance & propel without negative contrasts to get us going as well, and that’s part of our spiritual growth too.

Yet even so, the fact is, that many peoples worst darkest, most  nightmarish experiences,  ultimately often become the best things that happen to them. Not always, but often.

When it doesn’t, some would argue, the real reason is we didn’t get the message. We got too caught uP in our stubborn addictions and preconceptions of life’s unfairness and that blinds us to the real solutions being revealed.

So in the Big picture it’s win win.  Moving into, looking at, pulling in the BIGGER picture from the small picture also creates win win situations.

That means underneath the disguise of darkness, light is still there in a different form ready to still bless & gift us, even as we reluctantly admit later when we are not so caught uP in the high drama that we fail to see the wisdom being played out.  We are so focused on appearances & drama and the small picture.

When the dust settles, sometimes we even see the wisdom being played out in our favor.  Thus life is good even when it appears not to be.  It’s win win if we allow ourselves to see it that way.  I soulfully suggest you consider that possibility.

Even the huge gargantuan disasters that overwhelm entire cities and even countries, are perhaps, more collective calls of opportunity or more correctly OpportUNITY for a larger collective to work & play on a grand majestic scale.   We see our deep greatness in our rising and rebuilding from such destruction.

It doesn’t have to be that way at all & in future generations. I believe they will not experience what we are now experiencing.  However, we are dealing with it, we have no choice at the moment.

Except the choice to change our situation. The key for us individually and collective is, how we deal with such dark elements.

The Dark Side is temporary and is actually a spiritual adjustment being made because your deeper soul part of you desires it.

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Now can we by pass the Dark Side? Can we skip through the dark night of the soul?  The answer is yes if, we are ready and have integrated our lives enough not to need them to get to where we are choosing to go.  Yet, if not, see them as blessing and gifts from life.

If you can, ahh…the high drama, can be soften & lessened considerably, so that you can eventually pass though it much easier.  It’s possible.  I’ve done it.Yet it’s actually how we process the dark things in our life that determine if they will continue, stay or move out.  That is the great secret.

That’s where we often confuse the issue.  We need to re-educate ourselves in having the tools and wherewithal to process and integrate the Dark Side of life in a way that’s beneficial, healthy and not damaging and energy draining as a result of our exaggerated drama when it shows uP.

That’s the secret, and shows we are advancing as individuals, later we will do so as groups and still further as a global collective.  That’s where we’re heading, that’s why ideas, articles like this are showing uP.  We are calling it forth from our higher inspired selves influenced by Life, God, the Angels, the Universe etc.

When we learn as individuals, then as a society as a whole how to better handle the negative we will be riding a new perspective and experience in life. The new tsunami’s  in life will be the overwhelm not of destruction, but creative Imaginative construction and experiencing overwhelming joy, ecstasy and delight.

All the darkness will not end, but it can be such that it is almost a non issue and becomes the minority of human experience, not the majority as it often appears at this time.

Later we will examine how to handle and process the dark side of life and that is the secret.  For now rest in the satisfaction and anticipation that the negative dark elements in life do have gifts and blessings for us when we realize it.  When we do, they will lessen as a result.  That is part of their reason for our experiencing them.  They are always temporary.

They always have a gift. Yet we have to be willing to see it. Often our drama, energy and judgment blind us to it.  Not anymore, now you know the secret of The Dark Side.

2 Responses to The Dark Side

  1. Therese Wilson says:

    Marko, I have corrected punctuation only when it was relevant, to me, in understanding the sentence. Because of your long sentences, punctuation is critical to clarity. The piece itself is very clear!

    T.

    “peoples worse darkest,” Should be “worst, darkest,…”

    “ultimately often”.. Reverse the order of these words.

    “When it doesn’t, some would argue that the real reason is, we didn’t get the message.”
    When it doesn’t, some would argue, the real reason is we didn’t get the message.”

    “That means that underneath ” Leave out second “that”.

    “Even the huge gargantuan disasters that overwhelm entire cities and even countries, are perhaps, more collective calls of opportunity or more correctly OpportUNITY for a larger collective to work & play on a grand majestic scale. We see our deep greatness in our rising and rebuilding from such destruction.”
    Even the huge, gargantuan disasters that overwhelm entire cities, and even countries, are, perhaps, more collective calls of opportunity, or, more correctly, OpportUNITY for a larger collective to work & play, on a grand, majestic scale…

    “However, we are dealing with it, we have no choice at the moment. ”
    However, we are dealing with it. We have no choice at the moment.

    “and is actually a spiritual adjustment being made because your deeper soul part of you desires it.”
    …and is, actually, a spiritual adjustment being made, because the deeper, soul part of you, desires it.

    “the high drama, can be” no comma.

    “continue, stay or move out. ” continue/stay redundant. pick one.

    “That’s the secret, and shows we are advancing as individuals, later we will do so as groups and still further as a global collective. ”
    That’s the secret that shows we are advancing as individuals. Later we will do so as groups. Still further we will do so as a global collective (globally? as a collective? global and collective are also redundant.”

    “individuals, then as a society as a whole how to…negative” comma after society and negative.

    “overwhelm not of destruction, but” comma after overwhelm

    ” process the dark side of life and that is the secret. ”
    process the dark side of life, and (how) that is the secret. OR:
    process the dark side of life. That is the secret.

    “They always have a gift.”
    A the first sentence of a new paragraph, you have to identify “they”. ie: The dark elements always…

    “Not anymore, now you know the secret of The Dark Side.”
    They don’t have to anymore, because you now know…”

  2. Marko says:

    Thanks T. Will edit and refine very soon; & add a bit more that came to me.

    Premium blessings,
    -Marko

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